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It is not always easy to be the driving force in a BDSM mindfuck scene. Sometimes we need more than just technical skills to move the needle. This is where a little psychological insight and a touch of theater can help take our scenes to the next level.
Restraints
Restraints are a great first step in setting the stage for a mindfuck scene. Tight leather, metal or rope all serve the same purpose: to instill vulnerability.
A great technique for creating dramatic tension in a mindfuck scene is to first flood the submissive's nervous system with sensation. That might mean flogging, bondage, spanking, vibration - whatever turns them on and gets them into a 'receptive' headspace.
Sensory control and deprivation is very effective at putting your plaything into a receptive headspace for your consensual mind games. Control the senses and open the mind.
It is hard to discuss the mindfuck without mentioning fear. There is no doubt that our brain's fear and pleasure centers are related, and if BDSMers are good at one thing it is going to extremes.
Good theater demands resolution, and no scene wold be complete without the promise of reward. Take the pleasure over the top with intense stimulation toys like the Black Magic Wand and the Little Devil Clit Vibe.
Where to get ideas for psychological BDSM games like this? Ancient myths and philosophers are a great place to mine for nuggets. Socratic questioning, Stoic exercises in mental discipline, Buddhist concepts of ego dissolution all can be adapted for erotic theater.
The research is fun, but the real work is in transforming the philosophical framework into a complete experience rather than mere intellectual exercise. That is the craft of BDSM: using the body to access the mind, using the mind to touch something deeper than both.