For years, Rev. Jen has been coaching her readers on sex-related matters through her articles in Penthouse and posts on Nerve. She spent her early twenties working as a professional submissive at a swanky Manhattan dungeon before becoming a sex surrogate for a renowned therapist. In BDSM 101, practical instructions are given on safety, communication, bondage, spanking, flogging, fetishes, humiliation, dirty talk, and more. According to the author, "This books is what would happen if the Marquis de Sade, Andy Warhol, and Dorothy Parker got together and made a nymphomaniac bride of Frankenstein." Useful, entertaining, and written with rare candor, BDSM 101 is something you'll want to read aloud at parties and also use privately with lovers. It will become as indispensable as your favorite sex toy.
When entering into a D/s or M/s relationship, it is important to discuss goals, needs, desires and boundaries. The negotiation process is a great way to open up communication. Written by an attorney, this contract is ideal to negotiate/formalize a BDSM relationship, help partners talk about all the important aspects of the relationship, prior to play, and can be personalized to suit every unique arrangement. Make it as fun, hot, strict (even TPE) or as lenient as desired. Ideal for:
All levels of BDSM
Beginner kinksters
subs/slaves in training
Long-term partners
Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Male or Female Dominant/Master/Mistress
male or female submissive/slave
Collared/uncollared
Terms covered:
Duration of arrangement
Goals
Rights/Responsibilities
Safety
Areas of Control
Limits
Terms of Exclusivity
Switching
Punishment & Rewards
Termination, Amendment & Renewal
Please note: Contracts for BDSM relationships/activities are not legally enforceable, not even if written especially for you by your attorney. Although the BDSM Contract is drafted by an attorney with the look and feel of a legal document, it is intended for entertainment purposes only and it is NOT legally binding.
People have been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm - clitoral stimulation - from how we feel we should orgasm - penetration. As a result, we've created a pleasure gap between women and men:
50 percent of 18- to 35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner
64 percent of women versus 91 percent of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter
55 percent of men versus 4 percent of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex
In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that's perpetuating this gap and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features:
Cultural and historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem's been going on for ages)
An anatomy section (it's all custom under the hood)
Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears)
A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don't have to have a clitoris to be cliterate)
By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It's time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties.
Clean with confidence using Before & After. Simply spray and let the toy cleaner do the heavy lifting. Powered by naturally derived ingredients that clean and disinfect, this gently fragranced, antibacterial formula is fast-acting and proven to kill 99.9% of most common germs. A must-have addition for toy care that’s easy and effortless. Powered by naturally-derived ingredients.Proven to kill 99.9% of germs.Anti-bacterial formula is easy to apply and fast activating.Triclosan Free, Paraben Free.This product is not tested on animals.Made in USAINGREDIENTS: Water (Eau/Aqua), Cocamidapropyl PG-Dimonium Chloride Phosphate, Benzyl Alcohol, Disodium EDTA, Citric Acid, Sodium Hydroxide, Fragrance (Parfum).
This natural fiber cotton rope is lightweight, soft, and thicker than our other ropes at about 9mm in diameter. The extra thickness makes it easy to use and to together with its thickness, more forgiving. The benefit of cotton rope is its tooth (friction), which is great for both simple ties and advanced Shibari configurations. It's also a good alternative for those allergic to hemp or jute. The 50-foot length can easily be cut into two 25-ft. pieces, one of the most popular lengths used by masters of both Shibari and Western-style bondage.Note: Not rated for suspension bondage.Pro Tip: Keep a pair of EMT shears if a quick release is needed.• Lightweight and soft• Washable (air-dry recommended)• Twisted construction• 9mm diameter• 50-foot lengthMaterial: CottonWeight: 8.8 oz (250g)Dimensions: W: ¼” (9mm) (diameter) L: 50’ (15.25m)
4 Oral Sex Dice is an exciting way to spice up your sex life! These dice help you experience fun oral foreplay in positions and locations that will heighten your oral fun.
To Play:
Decide who rolls first. Then roll only 3 of the dice for the foreplay portion of the game. Action (teal), time (blue), and the part of the body (orchid). Complete the roll by using your mouth on the body for the allotted time. Take turns until you both decide it is time to roll the oral sex die and enjoy. Spice it up by rolling the dice several times and enjoy. Everyone is a winner in this game!
Winner, Best BDSM Nonfiction Book of the Year at the Golden Flogger Awards! Love getting tied up for fun? Just curious? This extraordinary celebration of rope bondage combines glorious full-color photos, groundbreaking research, and tips found nowhere else in one must-read book. You’ll get insightful writings by bondage experts worldwide on topics like pain processing, anatomy, and rope relationships—plus the stretching warm-up you’ve been waiting for. And if you’re a rope bottom who’s curvy, male, 40+, or gender-nonconforming, or you have a special physical condition like fibromyalgia, you’ll get helpful ideas tailored just for you, gathered from bondage lovers spanning the globe.Those who love to tie haven’t been left out, either! You’ll learn ties for partners with limited range of motion, along with tips for guerrilla bondage (aka rope bombing) from one of its pioneers. And an entire chapter is devoted to self-tying, written by a professional international performer and longtime instructor.As for that groundbreaking research, put your thinking cap on. For the first time publicly, a 15-year neuroscientist shares his insights developed over four years—including through his own case studies—as to why rope bondage makes us feel as amazing as it does.Inspirational essays and a list of resources round out this remarkable volume, which comes on the heels of the popular Little Guide to Getting Tied Up. A heartfelt tribute to community and the beauty of rope bondage lovers in all their diversity, it belongs in the libraries of rope bondage lovers everywhere.
Full color photographsOver 200 pagesFor all experience levelsMaterial: PaperWeight: 21.1oz (598g)Dimensions: 0.5” (1.27cm) wide x 10” (25.4cm) tall x 8” (20.3cm) long
Big Big Love is the only one-stop-shopping handbook on relationships, sexuality, and big sexy confidence for people of all genders, sizes, and sexual orientations who know that a fantastic love life doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the number on the bathroom scale.Covering everything from dating to sex toys to getting on top, this guide also features tips on navigating tricky topics like making peace with your belly, coping with weight-related prejudice, and creating a happy, satisfying sex life in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. This freshly illustrated update of the 2000 cult classic features new interviews with body-acceptance activists, health coaches, psychologists, and more, plus hundreds of quotes from fat folks and those who love them selected from a survey conducted exclusively for the book. From taking your clothes off to BDSM to fat admiration to tips for successful long-term relationships, Big Big Love's savvy, sane advice can help you tackle every hot-button issue you may confront in the bedroom and in love.
Surrender to your fantasies. Every submissive willingly does: bound and helpless, expecting the ecstasy of her master's lash. Never mind the leather-clothed or naked, she is stripped down to only the most basic physical and emotional need, completely exposed. But it's this swirl of sensations and feelings that combine in a perfect storm of kink and makes the seemingly impossible not only occur, but happen in a way that creates a sexy good time for everyone involved. The sensual stories that Alison Tyler has assembled in this collection delve into the dynamics of relationships filled with such unrestrained passion, revealing a world of beautiful contradictions that will thrill and inspire you. Some of these tales show how the everyday can be instantly transformed into pulse-quickening moments laced with eroticism.
In this collection of 69 short stories, submission takes many forms, from straining in bondage to taking a spanking, being put on display and put through one's paces and beyond. By turns bratty and worshipful, they'll go to great lengths to fulfill their naughtiest fantasies, and are rewarded splendidly by their masters and mistresses. The kinky men and women between these covers explore the erotic thrill of wearing, and exposing, a "Long Skirt," explore "Reverse Psychology" when it comes to pleasure and pain, learn things you won't find in the classroom with a "Naughty Prof," and uncover the hidden side of a "Perfect Gentleman." A student returns to show his former teacher who's really in charge, a photo shoot becomes an opportunity for erotic games and a man revels in his wife's past as a former dominatrix. These brats, masochists and hungry-for-sensation subs go above and beyond for the ones they adore, pushing themselves to new limits, while their devious dominants put them through their paces. Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel (The Big Book of Orgasms; Gotta Have It), these short stories sizzle with the tension of erotic power play, commands followed and service willingly performed.
Freedom to explore your pleasure, thats what Cecii is all about. Use Cecii as a wand to discover your -or your partners- body and unlock new levels of pleasure. Handcrafted out of high borosilicate glass, Cecii lends itself perfectly to temperature play, and have you seen that rainbow hue? OMG.
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This sultry black 100% genuine leather mouth gag is perfect for muffling your or your partner's cries of pain and pleasure! This gag is padded, fully adjustable, and easy to use and clean. You will be pleasantly aroused at the wearer's full mouth, their restricted speech, and their uncontrollable drooling. This is also a great option for those who like to clench their teeth during play. Give your pillow a break and bite down on this sexy gag instead!PRO TIP: Any mouth gag makes breathing more difficult. Keep the wearer's nose completely clear and remember that a gagged subject should never be left unattended.• 100% Genuine leather• Fully adjustable length of 19"-25" (48.3cm - 63.5cm) with buckle settling on the back of the neck• For all levels of play• Two O-rings to attach accessoriesMaterials: 100% Genuine leather, metalWeight: 4.2 oz (120g)Dimensions: Fully adjustable size range of 19"-25" (48.3cm - 63.5cm); gag biting surface approx. 9" (22.9cm); two 1.75" (4.5cm) O-rings
...Once I place this over your eyes, you will be unable to see. You will have to rely on all your other senses as they will be heightened....Sir whispered. Intrigued, I nod in agreement....Say yes...he said....Yes....I muster. Everything in this scene was hot, including my body. He slipped on the blindfold and all went dark. I welcomed the coolness of the satin against my eyelids, the sexiness of this blindfold...Are you ready to begin?...Sir asked. With a bold curiosity for our encounter tonight, I reply simply....please.... This padded satin blindfold is held in place by an elastic band, ensuring a comfortable but secure fit on most sizes. Measurements: 7.25 inches in width, 3.25 inches tall Material: Satin and elastic Color: Black
For anyone looking to explore new anal sensations alone or with a partner! Anal Adventures provides many options to choose from. The Prostate Stimulator is designed for enhanced P-spot orgasms. It's a hands-free device held in place by the sphincters muscles. Work in harmony with your body's natural movements to elevate you to new levels. Material Type: ABSInsertable Length: 3.5 inchesLength: 5 inchesWidth: 1 inchesProduct Weight: 1.4 ounces
For anyone looking to explore new anal sensations alone or with a partner! Anal Adventures provides many options to choose from. This plug's gently curved shape is targeted for P spot stimulation and comes equipped with a high powered 10 function rechargeable bullet. The Ultrasilk ™ Silicone, with it's silky-smooth feel, delivers vibrations beautifully. EXPLORE - Perfect for Adding New SensationPROSTATE - Curved for Prostate StimulationPOWER - Strong 10-Speed Vibrating Bullet for More PleasurePEACE OF MIND - Made from UltraSilk Silicone and Body-Safe ABS Plastic. Contains No Phthalates, Paraffins, or LatexSIZE - 4.25 Inch Length (3.5 Inch Insertable Length) x 1.25 Inch WidthCOLOR - Black
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