The thing about fantasies is that if you don't communicate them out into the world, they probably aren't going to happen. Kink.com has been a place where I've lived out many of my fantasies and participated in several "firsts."
One of my most memorable scenes with Kink is for the web site FamiliesTied with Charlotte Sartre and Derrick Pierce, directed by Ex Libris. I've worked with these incredible people before, so it is very easy to negotiate our scene and step into this fantasy based role play scenario.
Building the Fantasy Roleplay
I enjoy a sexy role play fantasy, especially when stepping into character with good friends like Derrick and Charlotte. During this particular shoot, Charlotte plays the role of Derrick's young and rebellious goth step-daughter. I play the all American suburban MILF who had recently married Derrick.
In the scene, Charlotte is visiting and is a real antagonistic brat! Charlotte tries to blackmail me and takes the dominant role, shoving her feet in my mouth, whipping out her flogger and leather crop. But the bratty goth only remains on top briefly. Soon enough, Derrick and I dominate her together. It is a very switchy scene! I love getting a chance to be both on the top and the bottom.
The action starts with Charlotte spanking and fucking me with her strap on. Derrick walks in on the two of us and the tables turn. I bend Charlotte over my knees for a bare-bottom spanking while Derrick fucks Charlotte's face and dominates both of us!
In the final scene my legs are tied with rope in a spread-eagle and Charlotte stuffs her whole fist in my ass. This is already pretty intense — Charlotte deep inside me, splayed out and bound on the bed. My mouth that was previously muffled with Charlotte's cunt is now stuffed with a big red ball gag and copious drool. But it gets better! Once Charlotte's fist is deep inside my ass, Derrick slips his cock right in there too! Charlotte starts giving him a handjob inside my ass. My orgasm in that position is extremely intense!
Although the experience of having my ass stretched and full of Charlotte's fist and Derrick's cock was incredibly intense and challenging, I was excited to try something new. It was kind of my idea.
I have this phrase I like to use when I get a super kinky idea that makes me hot: "Wouldn't it be cute if___?" and it was very cute!
'Cute' can include things that push limits and boundaries. It's much easier to push limits if you know everyone involved. Derrick, Charlotte and I had been good friends and knew each other very well.
Making Fantasies Real
In each scene, I learn something new and am reminded of something that I always knew. This intense scene with Derrick and Charlotte reinforces the necessity of speaking up and asking for what I want. It's like I speak my fantasy into being and it results in an amazing scene.
It's important for people to actually communicate their wants and needs, their desires - whether they are a dominant or a submissive. No matter what their role is.
