People have been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm - clitoral stimulation - from how we feel we should orgasm - penetration. As a result, we've created a pleasure gap between women and men: 50 percent of 18- to 35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner 64 percent of women versus 91 percent of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter 55 percent of men versus 4 percent of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that's perpetuating this gap and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features: Cultural and historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem's been going on for ages) An anatomy section (it's all custom under the hood) Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears) A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don't have to have a clitoris to be cliterate) By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It's time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties.

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Indulge in the ultimate sensual experience with the MATCHMAKER Pheromone Massage Candle. Made with a shea butter base and other natural oils, this 3-in-1 luxury candle creates a seductive atmosphere for sensual massages and leaves skin feeling soft and hydrated.Created in collaboration with Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, this scent is a sensual blend of jasmine, grapefruit, and amber with a touch of citrus. Melts into a warm oil that won't burn your skin Contains natural moisturizing ingredients  Contains high-quality vegan pheromones USE:  Light candle and let burn until starts melting (approx. 20 min) Use as your daily moisturizer or for a sensual massage.***High temperatures create a higher probability of melting in shipment during the months of June-September.Entrenue strongly recommends ordering this product from October-May ONLY.If this item is ordered during the high-temperature months, Entrenue assumes no responsibility if it melts in transit and will not accept returns or issue credits on this item or on any products that were purchased with this product that it may have melted on and damaged. 

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Expand your erotic horizons beyond the ordinary Whether you are just curious about kinky sex, an experienced BDSM player, or interested in exploring your own erotic edges, this diverse guide to the world of kink is sure to inform, inspire and challenge! The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel and Edge. This comprehensive volume includes: Techniques and creative ideas for bondage, spanking, flogging, sensation play, rough sex and more, illustrated by Katie Diamond Lessons on how to eroticize power, cultivate deeper connections and incorporate kink into your sex life Role-playing fantasies from the popular to the taboo Provocative and personal manifestos on dominance, submission, sadism and masochism And everything in between! Filmmaker and sex educator Tristan Taormino offers us a truly bold and sexy treasury that runs the gamut from expert tutorials on kinky erotic practices to thought-provoking essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power and pleasure.

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