Feeling adventurous? With style and wit, sex educator and best-selling writer Violet Blue breaks down the essential elements of strap-on sex for heterosexual couples and explains exactly how to do it. Blue explains pleasure anatomy in men, with ample attention to the prostate gland – the epicenter of male orgasm that's been called "the male G-spot." Full of suggestions for positions, toys, harnesses, role-play scenarios, and reading your partner like a dirty book, The Adventurous couple's Guide to Strap-On Sexoffers a step-by-step guide to making sparks fly.
For many years the focus of fear and disgust, the anus is actually one of the human body's most wondrous creations elegant, efficient, and richly supplied with pleasure nerves.However, stress and ignorance can turn the anus and its functions from a source of delight into a painful disability. What's needed is an owner's manual and here it is! Join therapist and sexologist Jack Morin, PhD on this tour of the anus, complete with information and exercises to open the door to new sources of comfort and gratification.You'll unlearn habits that can cause everything from hemorrhoids to chronic pelvic pain and, if you choose, learn new ways of achieving solo and partnered pleasures through this humblest of portals.
Sex educator Carlyle Jansen has all of the tips and techniques to ease readers into butt play and anal pleasure. Learn all of the sexiest secrets to fingering, licking, and using toys, and even erotic fantasy and role play. Anal Sex Basics covers everything a beginner will need, from choosing lube to learning the best positions. More than just technique, this guide also gives advice on bringing up anal sex with a partner and making it all as fun and safe as possible.
Bringing the ancient matchmaking tool of astrology into the 21st century, The Astrology of Love & Sex explores the romantic and sensual sides of the zodiac. In 12 detailed chapters, astrologer Annabel Gat divulges how each sign likes to flirt, date, and fool around. Going beyond traditional heteronormative gender roles, the book candidly explores love and lust in today's sexually fluid world. From love philosophies to sexual inclinations, readers will enjoy dissecting and analyzing each passage. With unique compatibility profiles matching every sign and a quiz to identify your star matchwrapped in an all-foil case wtih gilded page edgesthis is a fun and comprehensive guide to finding true cosmic love.
From the author of Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body, the New York Times Bestseller, Best Book of the Year at NPR, the Boston Globe, Newsweek, and many more, and instant classicA collection of essays spanning politics, criticism, and feminism from one of the most-watched young cultural observers of her generation, Roxane Gay.Pink is my favorite color. I used to say my favorite color was black to be cool, but it is pinkall shades of pink. If I have an accessory, it is probably pink. I read Vogue, and Im not doing it ironically, though it might seem that way. I once live-tweeted the September issue.In these funny and insightful essays, Roxane Gay takes us through the journey of her evolution as a woman (Sweet Valley High) of color (The Help) while also taking readers on a ride through culture of the last few years (Girls, Django in Chains) and commenting on the state of feminism today (abortion, Chris Brown). The portrait that emerges is not only one of an incredibly insightful woman continually growing to understand herself and our society, but also one of our culture.Bad Feminist is a sharp, funny, and spot-on look at the ways in which the culture we consume becomes who we are, and an inspiring call-to-arms of all the ways we still need to do better, coming from one of our most interesting and important cultural critics.
For years, Rev. Jen has been coaching her readers on sex-related matters through her articles in Penthouse and posts on Nerve. She spent her early twenties working as a professional submissive at a swanky Manhattan dungeon before becoming a sex surrogate for a renowned therapist. In BDSM 101, practical instructions are given on safety, communication, bondage, spanking, flogging, fetishes, humiliation, dirty talk, and more. According to the author, "This books is what would happen if the Marquis de Sade, Andy Warhol, and Dorothy Parker got together and made a nymphomaniac bride of Frankenstein." Useful, entertaining, and written with rare candor, BDSM 101 is something you'll want to read aloud at parties and also use privately with lovers. It will become as indispensable as your favorite sex toy.
When entering into a D/s or M/s relationship, it is important to discuss goals, needs, desires and boundaries. The negotiation process is a great way to open up communication. Written by an attorney, this contract is ideal to negotiate/formalize a BDSM relationship, help partners talk about all the important aspects of the relationship, prior to play, and can be personalized to suit every unique arrangement. Make it as fun, hot, strict (even TPE) or as lenient as desired. Ideal for:
All levels of BDSM
Beginner kinksters
subs/slaves in training
Long-term partners
Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Male or Female Dominant/Master/Mistress
male or female submissive/slave
Collared/uncollared
Terms covered:
Duration of arrangement
Goals
Rights/Responsibilities
Safety
Areas of Control
Limits
Terms of Exclusivity
Switching
Punishment & Rewards
Termination, Amendment & Renewal
Please note: Contracts for BDSM relationships/activities are not legally enforceable, not even if written especially for you by your attorney. Although the BDSM Contract is drafted by an attorney with the look and feel of a legal document, it is intended for entertainment purposes only and it is NOT legally binding.
People have been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm - clitoral stimulation - from how we feel we should orgasm - penetration. As a result, we've created a pleasure gap between women and men:
50 percent of 18- to 35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner
64 percent of women versus 91 percent of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter
55 percent of men versus 4 percent of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex
In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that's perpetuating this gap and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features:
Cultural and historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem's been going on for ages)
An anatomy section (it's all custom under the hood)
Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears)
A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don't have to have a clitoris to be cliterate)
By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It's time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties.
Winner, Best BDSM Nonfiction Book of the Year at the Golden Flogger Awards! Love getting tied up for fun? Just curious? This extraordinary celebration of rope bondage combines glorious full-color photos, groundbreaking research, and tips found nowhere else in one must-read book. You’ll get insightful writings by bondage experts worldwide on topics like pain processing, anatomy, and rope relationships—plus the stretching warm-up you’ve been waiting for. And if you’re a rope bottom who’s curvy, male, 40+, or gender-nonconforming, or you have a special physical condition like fibromyalgia, you’ll get helpful ideas tailored just for you, gathered from bondage lovers spanning the globe.Those who love to tie haven’t been left out, either! You’ll learn ties for partners with limited range of motion, along with tips for guerrilla bondage (aka rope bombing) from one of its pioneers. And an entire chapter is devoted to self-tying, written by a professional international performer and longtime instructor.As for that groundbreaking research, put your thinking cap on. For the first time publicly, a 15-year neuroscientist shares his insights developed over four years—including through his own case studies—as to why rope bondage makes us feel as amazing as it does.Inspirational essays and a list of resources round out this remarkable volume, which comes on the heels of the popular Little Guide to Getting Tied Up. A heartfelt tribute to community and the beauty of rope bondage lovers in all their diversity, it belongs in the libraries of rope bondage lovers everywhere.
Full color photographsOver 200 pagesFor all experience levelsMaterial: PaperWeight: 21.1oz (598g)Dimensions: 0.5” (1.27cm) wide x 10” (25.4cm) tall x 8” (20.3cm) long
Big Big Love is the only one-stop-shopping handbook on relationships, sexuality, and big sexy confidence for people of all genders, sizes, and sexual orientations who know that a fantastic love life doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the number on the bathroom scale.Covering everything from dating to sex toys to getting on top, this guide also features tips on navigating tricky topics like making peace with your belly, coping with weight-related prejudice, and creating a happy, satisfying sex life in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. This freshly illustrated update of the 2000 cult classic features new interviews with body-acceptance activists, health coaches, psychologists, and more, plus hundreds of quotes from fat folks and those who love them selected from a survey conducted exclusively for the book. From taking your clothes off to BDSM to fat admiration to tips for successful long-term relationships, Big Big Love's savvy, sane advice can help you tackle every hot-button issue you may confront in the bedroom and in love.
Surrender to your fantasies. Every submissive willingly does: bound and helpless, expecting the ecstasy of her master's lash. Never mind the leather-clothed or naked, she is stripped down to only the most basic physical and emotional need, completely exposed. But it's this swirl of sensations and feelings that combine in a perfect storm of kink and makes the seemingly impossible not only occur, but happen in a way that creates a sexy good time for everyone involved. The sensual stories that Alison Tyler has assembled in this collection delve into the dynamics of relationships filled with such unrestrained passion, revealing a world of beautiful contradictions that will thrill and inspire you. Some of these tales show how the everyday can be instantly transformed into pulse-quickening moments laced with eroticism.
In this collection of 69 short stories, submission takes many forms, from straining in bondage to taking a spanking, being put on display and put through one's paces and beyond. By turns bratty and worshipful, they'll go to great lengths to fulfill their naughtiest fantasies, and are rewarded splendidly by their masters and mistresses. The kinky men and women between these covers explore the erotic thrill of wearing, and exposing, a "Long Skirt," explore "Reverse Psychology" when it comes to pleasure and pain, learn things you won't find in the classroom with a "Naughty Prof," and uncover the hidden side of a "Perfect Gentleman." A student returns to show his former teacher who's really in charge, a photo shoot becomes an opportunity for erotic games and a man revels in his wife's past as a former dominatrix. These brats, masochists and hungry-for-sensation subs go above and beyond for the ones they adore, pushing themselves to new limits, while their devious dominants put them through their paces. Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel (The Big Book of Orgasms; Gotta Have It), these short stories sizzle with the tension of erotic power play, commands followed and service willingly performed.
How can a book on going down change someone's life? How can having great oral sex be as important as having great intercourse? The truth is that oral sex can actually be the key to unlocking sexual confidence, excitement, and intimacy. With the increasing prevalence of oral sex in the media and news (thanks, politicians and the MTV generation!), more people are looking to take their oral game to the next level. Unfortunately, shame, fear, and discomfort can stand in the way of a truly outstanding oral sex life. That's where author and sex therapist Jaiya comes in. Blow Each Other Away is the ultimate guide for couples to overcome the obstacles that stand in the way of incredible oral sex, from an author on the front lines of sex therapy and sexual wellness.
Body Action Anal Bleach Gel (1oz)Intimate area skin lightening for men and women. Safe for use on anus, vagina, penis, scrotum, nipples underarms. Hydroquinone Free.
Perfect for the bondage beginner or enthusiasts who wants more practice or new ideas, this book shows bondage ties for many purposes and effects. Whether top or bottom, dominant or submissive, male or female, this is an essential reference for the bondage enthusiast's bedside table. Lord Morpheous takes readers through the basics of BDSM, including the vocabulary, pop culture references, understanding types of participants, and the basics of kink culture. Then, quickly learn about both Eastern and Western styles of knot-tying, and receive step-by-step guidance and full color photos so tying knots becomes quick, easy, and fun. This handy guide to bondage also covers safety considerations, how to communicate with your lover, and how to take bondage to the next level.
Whether you're drinking your morning coffee, evening tea, or something in between – this mug's for you! It's sturdy and glossy with a vivid print that'll withstand the microwave and dishwasher. • Ceramic • Dishwasher and microwave safe • White and glossy
Bring it Up Plus Size Breast Lifts are designed for women over a size D cup to give added lift and support when worn with a bra. Great for assisting with bras made for strapless or backless fashions. They are a transparent, waterproof, hypoallergenic adhesive unlike any other breast lift ever seen before. Bring It Up Lifts are applied to the top of the breast, not underneath, lifting the loose skin and repositioning the nipple to a higher place for a more natural, youthful appearance. Wear a strapless bra with confidence. Remove excess weight on the shoulder.
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CGC Oh My Clitoral Stimulant Cooling 1 fluid ounce from Classic Erotica. Fragrance free.Add some serious zip to love button play with Oh Yes. Cold and exhilarating, this silky serum increases sensitivity and enhances orgasm intensity. Perfect for foreplay and self play pleasuring. Apply a small amount of serum directly to clitoral area. Reapply as needed or desired. Cooling and tingly serum, ideal for clitoral arousal and enhanced sensation. Formulated to enhance orgasm intensity. Fragrance Free. Ideal for toy, self and couple's play. This product does not contain gluten or sugar. This product does not contain parabens or mineral oil. This product is not tested on animals. Made in the USA.
CGC Tush Tease Anal Stimulant Au Naturel .7 fluid ounce from Classic Erotica.Increase intensity of booty play with Tush Tease. Warm and tingly, this silky serum boosts sensitivity of the anus for heightened pleasures. Perfect for enhancing external anal play. Apply a small amount of serum directly to finger tip and gently rub on anus. Reapply as needed or desired. May be used with most vibrating toys. Warming and tingly serum, ideal for enhancing anal play. Formulated to boost sensitivity and heighten pleasure. Fragrance Free. Ideal for toy, self and couple's play. This product does not contain parabens or mineral oil. This product is not tested on animals. This product does not contain benzocaine. Made in the USA.
Coconu Water Based is a 100% natural, vegan, and cruelty-free water based formula. Designed to last as long as you do, the coconut water based lubricant has a strong, silky, sensuous feel that will moisturize sensitive areas while providing an extremely lifelike lubrication during the most intimate moments.
An essential exploration of why and how womens sexuality worksbased on groundbreaking research and brain sciencethat will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a pink pill for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never existbut as a result of the research thats gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how womens sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all.The first lesson in this essential, transformative book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others experiences. Because women vary, and thats normal.Second lesson: sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a womans arousal, desire, and orgasm.Cutting-edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a womans sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create for yourself better sex and more profound pleasure than you ever thought possible.And Emily Nagoski can prove it.
A new, practical workbook from the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are that allows you to apply the books groundbreaking research and understanding of why and how womens sexuality works to everyday life.In the twentieth century, womens sexuality was seen as Mens Sexuality Lite: basically the same, but not quite as good. From genital response to sexual desire to orgasm, we just couldnt understand that complicated, inconsistent, crazy-making lady business.That is, until Dr. Emily Nagoski changed the game with her New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are. Using groundbreaking science and research, she proved that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how theyre organized, but how you feel about them. Which means that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a womans sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. And, that even if you dont yet feel that way, you are already sexually whole. Nagoskis book changed countless womens lives and approaches to sex, and now she offers the next step.The Come As You Are Workbook is a practical companion to this bestselling guide, filled with new activities, prompts, and thought-provoking examples to help you exercise and expand on the knowledge youve learned. This collection of worksheets, journaling prompts, illustrations, and diagrams is a practical and engaging companion for anyone who wants to further their understanding of their own bodies and sex lives.
Awaken all those sensitive nerve endings in your anal area with this sleek and sculptural metal butt plug. Its distinctive tapered tip allows for easier insertion, while the removable ring eases removal. Whether you're shooting for an anal orgasm, a prostate orgasm or G-spot/A-spot stimulation, this anal toy is on your side when it's in your ass. It also lets you stretch the anus, engage in double penetration, and command or show submission. And of course it can be your dirty little secret at the office or parties! Comes in three sizes. Pro Tips: To add bondage, tie the plug into place with rope threaded through your belt loops and the ring, or use our leather bondage belt with leather straps. The ring can also be removed for sitting. |• Stimulates the G-spot, A-spot, and prostate • Gently stretches the anus for bigger things • Distinctive design with tapered tip and pull ring • Easy to clean with soap and water • Comes with velvet pouch • Material: Chrome-plated aluminum alloy • Sizing: S: 80g (3oz) . 77mm (2.7inch) (without ring) dia 27mm (1inch) M: 150g (5.3oz) (3.75inch) (without ring) dia 34mm (1.33 inch) L: 285g (10oz) 115mm(4.5inch) (without ring) dia 45mm (1.8 inch)
