Kinks new Adjustable E-Stim Strap is the perfect addition to any E-Stim lovers tackle box. A pair of fully adjustable, conductive fabric straps with snap connectors that connect to our double electrode cable that will plug into any unit accepting 3.5mm jacks. These straps are very adjustable with usable sizes from an inch to eight inches, making them perfect for a variety of body parts. Keep in mind the straps are monopolar, meaning both electrodes will need to be in use for them to function. Pro Tip: use a conductive jelly lube for a greater sensation.
Fully adjustable 1”-8”
Conductive Fabric
Super long 39” cable
Materials: fabric, electrodes, cableWeight: 1 oz (29g)Dimensions: Straps adjustable from 1” (2.5cm) to 8” (20.3cm) x 0.75” (1.9cm) wide, Cable is 39” (99cm) long.
When entering into a D/s or M/s relationship, it is important to discuss goals, needs, desires and boundaries. The negotiation process is a great way to open up communication. Written by an attorney, this contract is ideal to negotiate/formalize a BDSM relationship, help partners talk about all the important aspects of the relationship, prior to play, and can be personalized to suit every unique arrangement. Make it as fun, hot, strict (even TPE) or as lenient as desired. Ideal for:
All levels of BDSM
Beginner kinksters
subs/slaves in training
Long-term partners
Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Male or Female Dominant/Master/Mistress
male or female submissive/slave
Collared/uncollared
Terms covered:
Duration of arrangement
Goals
Rights/Responsibilities
Safety
Areas of Control
Limits
Terms of Exclusivity
Switching
Punishment & Rewards
Termination, Amendment & Renewal
Please note: Contracts for BDSM relationships/activities are not legally enforceable, not even if written especially for you by your attorney. Although the BDSM Contract is drafted by an attorney with the look and feel of a legal document, it is intended for entertainment purposes only and it is NOT legally binding.
People have been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm - clitoral stimulation - from how we feel we should orgasm - penetration. As a result, we've created a pleasure gap between women and men:
50 percent of 18- to 35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner
64 percent of women versus 91 percent of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter
55 percent of men versus 4 percent of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex
In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that's perpetuating this gap and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features:
Cultural and historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem's been going on for ages)
An anatomy section (it's all custom under the hood)
Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears)
A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don't have to have a clitoris to be cliterate)
By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It's time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties.
Winner, Best BDSM Nonfiction Book of the Year at the Golden Flogger Awards! Love getting tied up for fun? Just curious? This extraordinary celebration of rope bondage combines glorious full-color photos, groundbreaking research, and tips found nowhere else in one must-read book. You’ll get insightful writings by bondage experts worldwide on topics like pain processing, anatomy, and rope relationships—plus the stretching warm-up you’ve been waiting for. And if you’re a rope bottom who’s curvy, male, 40+, or gender-nonconforming, or you have a special physical condition like fibromyalgia, you’ll get helpful ideas tailored just for you, gathered from bondage lovers spanning the globe.Those who love to tie haven’t been left out, either! You’ll learn ties for partners with limited range of motion, along with tips for guerrilla bondage (aka rope bombing) from one of its pioneers. And an entire chapter is devoted to self-tying, written by a professional international performer and longtime instructor.As for that groundbreaking research, put your thinking cap on. For the first time publicly, a 15-year neuroscientist shares his insights developed over four years—including through his own case studies—as to why rope bondage makes us feel as amazing as it does.Inspirational essays and a list of resources round out this remarkable volume, which comes on the heels of the popular Little Guide to Getting Tied Up. A heartfelt tribute to community and the beauty of rope bondage lovers in all their diversity, it belongs in the libraries of rope bondage lovers everywhere.
Full color photographsOver 200 pagesFor all experience levelsMaterial: PaperWeight: 21.1oz (598g)Dimensions: 0.5” (1.27cm) wide x 10” (25.4cm) tall x 8” (20.3cm) long
Body Action Anal Bleach Gel (1oz)Intimate area skin lightening for men and women. Safe for use on anus, vagina, penis, scrotum, nipples underarms. Hydroquinone Free.
Silicone lubricant helps ease those intimate moments. Formula contains natural oils to help relax the sphincter muscles naturally with no desensitizing effect.
Perfect for the bondage beginner or enthusiasts who wants more practice or new ideas, this book shows bondage ties for many purposes and effects. Whether top or bottom, dominant or submissive, male or female, this is an essential reference for the bondage enthusiast's bedside table. Lord Morpheous takes readers through the basics of BDSM, including the vocabulary, pop culture references, understanding types of participants, and the basics of kink culture. Then, quickly learn about both Eastern and Western styles of knot-tying, and receive step-by-step guidance and full color photos so tying knots becomes quick, easy, and fun. This handy guide to bondage also covers safety considerations, how to communicate with your lover, and how to take bondage to the next level.
This lightweight hood is designed to be comfortable, stretching completely over their head and obscuring their view while leaving their mouth accessible. It features a built in padded blindfold and will not hamper breathing. The exposed mouth leaves open all kinds of naughty possibilities. Perfect for some roleplaying, or insertion of a mouth gag, sex toy, or any other exciting object... Measurements: One size fits most Material: Spandex Color: Black
Awaken all those sensitive nerve endings in your anal area with this sleek and sculptural metal butt plug. Its distinctive tapered tip allows for easier insertion, while the removable ring eases removal. Whether you're shooting for an anal orgasm, a prostate orgasm or G-spot/A-spot stimulation, this anal toy is on your side when it's in your ass. It also lets you stretch the anus, engage in double penetration, and command or show submission. And of course it can be your dirty little secret at the office or parties! Comes in three sizes. Pro Tips: To add bondage, tie the plug into place with rope threaded through your belt loops and the ring, or use our leather bondage belt with leather straps. The ring can also be removed for sitting. |• Stimulates the G-spot, A-spot, and prostate • Gently stretches the anus for bigger things • Distinctive design with tapered tip and pull ring • Easy to clean with soap and water • Comes with velvet pouch • Material: Chrome-plated aluminum alloy • Sizing: S: 80g (3oz) . 77mm (2.7inch) (without ring) dia 27mm (1inch) M: 150g (5.3oz) (3.75inch) (without ring) dia 34mm (1.33 inch) L: 285g (10oz) 115mm(4.5inch) (without ring) dia 45mm (1.8 inch)
This ultra comfortable and versatile restraint system has everything you require in a spreader bar! Each of the four cuffs are made of heavy duty nylon on the outside and gentle neoprene on the inside. Secured by Velcro closures so that they fit almost any size, you will be held in place...comfortably! The mid-section is supported by a metal reinforced bar wrapped in nylon. Each ankle cuff is 16 inches apart, and the wrist cuffs are spaced 9 inches apart. Use your imagination, this sublime spreader system can be utilized in numerous positions and places! Measurements: 22 inches in total length, ankle cuffs are 16 inches apart, wrist cuffs are 9 inches apart, cuffs measure 15 inches in circumference Material: Neoprene, nylon, Velcro, metal Color: Black
Add lube, stroke, rinse, and repeat. A tight textured tunnel that is super stretchy with a realistic look and feel. Waterproof, reusable, long-lasting. Use sleeve independently or in a cup. Easy to use and easy to clean. Body safe and phthalate free. The 3 styles include pussy, ass, and mouth.
Add lube, stroke, rinse, and repeat. A tight textured tunnel that is super stretchy with a realistic look and feel. Waterproof, reusable, long-lasting. Use sleeve independently or in a cup. Easy to use and easy to clean. Body safe and phthalate free. The 3 styles include pussy, ass, and mouth.
Add lube, stroke, rinse, and repeat. A tight textured tunnel that is super stretchy with a realistic look and feel. Waterproof, reusable, long-lasting. Use sleeve independently or in a cup. Easy to use and easy to clean. Body safe and phthalate free. The 3 styles include pussy, ass, and mouth.
This Master Series Interlace Bed Restraints Kit is versatile enough to bind them in all ways you can imagine. The kit contains eight contact points which can be sure to fit any sized mattress. The four removable ankle and wrist cuffs are made of neoprene to ensure their comfort, and yet still be restrained to your liking. Each cuff is adjustable to fit most and made with Velcro to ensure a quick release. Measurements: Cuffs and straps adjust to fit all Material: Neoprene, Nylon, Metal Color: Black.Note: For optimal function Queen mattress, or larger, is recommended
Some women need an extra boost. Intense Clitoral Gel has a higher concentration of natural Japanese peppermint oil than the Gentle Clitoral Gel. Can be used for clitoral foreplay, stimulation during intercourse, and stimulation with a toy. 30 ml/1 fl. oz.
Add a splash of color to your morning coffee or tea ritual! These ceramic mugs not only have a beautiful design on them, but also a colorful rim, handle, and inside, so the mug is bound to spice up your mug rack.
• Ceramic
• Height: 3.85″ (9.8 cm)
• Diameter: 3.35″ (8.5 cm)
• White print area
• Color rim, inside, and handle
• Dishwasher and microwave safe
Our washable fabric cuffs are easy to put on and take off thanks to the wraparound Velcro design! Made of soft, foamy neoprene lined with silky smooth black spandex, the versatile cuffs adjust to fit both the wrists and ankles of most men and women. Each cuff measures up to 10" (25.4 cm) around when the nylon webbing straps are fully fastened. Product Details: Cuffs fasten with velcro strapsCuffs measure up to 10" (25.4 cm)Sold as a pair
From award winning author Evie Vane comes “The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up”, a complete guide to getting prepared to be a rope bottom, perfect for beginners all the way up to deeply experienced rope bottoms looking to further their skills. In just over a hundred pages this book will help you identify what you want from rope bondage, teach skills to help you clearly communicate with your rope top, and above all, teach you how to stay safe while doing any type of scene. You will not find knots and tie positions in this book, but what you will find is critical knowledge on how to manage pain, prepare for scenes, and learning to trust your gut when it comes to limits. This little book is a must read for anyone interested in rope bondage.102 page softcover bookCrucial communication and preparation skillsMindfulness practicesHelpful tips for suspension and identifying hard pointsMaterials: PaperWeight: 6.2oz (178g)Dimensions: 9.25” (23.5cm) tall x 6” (15.2cm) wide x 0.25” (0.6cm) deep
These small magnet clamps fit right in your pocket. They are simple, powerful, and discreet. These magnetic metal balls deliver a generous and pleasurable sensation. Simply attach one orb to each side of nipple, labia, cock, or other sensitive spots for a dose of pressure, leaving your hands free to do other fun and sexy activities.Pro Tip: The less flesh between the ball clamps, the stronger the sensation. If the pressure is too intense, remove and reapply with more flesh between the orbs.• Light and easy to transport• High-quality metal-coated magnet• Sold as a set of 2 clamps (4 orbs total)Material: Metal-coated magnetWeight: 0.6 oz (16g)Dimensions: Diameter of each orb is 0.5" (1.3cm)
MUSCLE RIPPED is our shredded down cocksheath that fits and doesn’t add too much more if you don’t want that much more. MUSCLE RIPPED is a slimmer version of our best cocksheath MUSCLE; we made it leaner and a bit shorter so it fits more…fits better. It’s designed to add a little more girth and inches of length…not too big, not too small. It’s made of our rubbery FLEXtpr™ so it stretches to fit bigger guys, adding a little more to what they have and it morphs onto smaller guys for a snugger fit. It’ll stay on—you can even adjust the inside shaft size. It comes with our ADJUSTfit insert so it fits right for your dick, and it has our original COCKSLING base so it fits like it’s part of you. SHEATH DIMENSIONS: Length: 9.25”/ 23.5 cmWidth: 1.5”-1.75”/ 3.81 cm-4.45 cmDepth: 1”/ 2.54 cmMain hole circumference: 3.93”/ 9.98 cmShaft hole Circumference: 3.14”/ 7.98 cmInner shaft depth: 5”/ 12.7 cmBall hole circumference: 3.14”/ 7.98 cmSmallest shaft circumference: 4.75”/ 12.07 cmUsable shaft circumference: 4.75”-5” / 12.07 cm-12.7 cmWeight: 5.12 oz/ 145.15 g
Create thrilling sexual excitement with this beautiful Fetish Fantasy Satin Love Mask. Try it on your lover or use it as a nightshade for yourself. When you put it on your partner, it softly covers their eyes, keeping your lover in a pleasurable state of darkness and anticipation that heightens their sexual desire. The mask stays comfortably in place with an elastic fabric strap. Heightened sensory awareness can lead to extraordinary love sessions for both you and your partner.
This comfortable open-mouth hood is designed to stretch completely over the head, allowing just a hint of light in while impairing vision and awakening other senses. The shiny black hood can be worn by him or her, and the thin lightweight fabric makes breathing and hearing a snap. Best of all, you still have access to your subject's mouth! One size fits most.
Pjur Analyse Me Anal Glide (100ml)This lubricant is specifically designed for comfortable anal penetration. Hypoallergenic, safe for use with latex condoms, and great for every day use. This super slippery relaxing lube is made with Jojoba oil for maximum comfort.
pjur® BACKDOOR Silicone, enriched with relaxing jojoba, is a double-effect silicone-based anal lubricant created for individuals who prefer intense anal penetration. This performance enhancing personal lubricant is hypoallergenic, latex condom safe, and ideal for daily use. Medical grade ingredients and unique formula make it the most relaxing silicone-based anal lubricant.Ingredients: Dimethicone, Cyclopentasiloxane, Dimethiconol, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil.
